Chicago Micro Wedding Officiant
A Personal Ceremony for the People Who Matter Most
When you're inviting your closest family and friends, every moment matters.
Your ceremony shouldn't feel smaller because your guest list is smaller. It should feel even more personal.
Whether you're planning a restaurant celebration, a rooftop gathering, a garden ceremony, or an intimate wedding with fewer than 50 guests, your ceremony deserves the same care, creativity, and attention as any large wedding.
Together, we'll create a ceremony that tells your story, reflects your relationship, and allows you to be fully present with the people who mean the most to you.
Because intimate doesn't mean simple.
It means intentional.
ImAGINE A DAY WHERE EVERY CONVERSATION FEELS LIKE A HEARTFELT CONNECTION, A SYMPHONY OF SHARED LAUGHTER AND GENUINE EXCHANGES.
Why Couples Love Micro Weddings
A micro wedding gives you something many larger weddings don't.
Time.
Time to enjoy conversations instead of rushing through them.
Time to celebrate with every guest instead of waving across a crowded ballroom.
Time to slow down and actually experience becoming married.
Your ceremony becomes more than the event that starts the reception. It becomes the heart of the day.
That's why every Forever Incredible ceremony is written from scratch, reflecting your personalities, your relationship, and the life you're building together.
Whether you're celebrating with 15 guests or 50, your ceremony should feel just as unforgettable as your marriage.
~ Steven
“She really helped make our wedding such a special day that everyone who attended enjoyed, especially us as the couple getting married.”
Carla is very professional and eased my worries away. She goes above and beyond, working to make epic memories we will carry with us forever.
~Madel
Your Ceremony Should Feel Like It Was Written By Someone Who Knows You
One of the greatest compliments I receive is when guests ask the couple, "How long have you known your officiant?"
The answer always surprises them.
Through thoughtful conversations and detailed questionnaires, I get to know who you are, what you've built together, and what matters most to you. That allows me to create a ceremony that feels natural, personal, and unmistakably yours.
By the time your wedding day arrives, you won't be standing through a generic script.
You'll be hearing your own story told in a way that makes you smile, laugh, tear up, and simply enjoy being together.
That's why so many couples tell me they were able to relax, stay present, and truly experience one of the most meaningful moments of their lives.
A Family Centered Intimate Wedding in the Chicago Suburbs at Hotel Arista for Alex and Dominic - Officiated by Carla Doshi
Is a Micro Wedding Right for You?
Planning a micro wedding, intimate wedding, or small wedding in Chicago comes with a different set of questions than planning a large celebration. Here are some of the questions couples ask most often when they're looking for a Chicago wedding officiant to create a ceremony that feels personal, meaningful, and completely true to their relationship.
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A micro wedding is a thoughtfully planned wedding with a smaller guest list, typically up to 50 guests. Some couples call it a small wedding, an intimate wedding, or even a minimony, but the heart of the celebration is the same. You spend your wedding day surrounded by the people who matter most while creating meaningful moments together.
As a Chicago Micro Wedding Officiant, I believe a smaller guest list doesn't mean a smaller experience. In fact, many couples tell me their micro wedding ceremony felt even more personal because there was time to slow down, stay present, and truly enjoy the moment.
Whether you're planning a Luxury Micro Wedding in Chicago, a casual gathering with family, or an elegant dinner celebration, your ceremony deserves just as much care and attention as any large wedding.
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Most couples consider a micro wedding to include anywhere from 6 to 40 guests, although there isn't a strict rule. Some celebrations include only immediate family, while others bring together several dozen of your closest friends and loved ones.
Whether you're planning a small wedding ceremony in Chicago with 12 guests or an intimate celebration with 40, your ceremony should never feel like an afterthought. Every ceremony I create is written specifically for you, ensuring your guests feel connected to your story from beginning to end.
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Absolutely. In fact, that's my specialty.
Every personalized wedding ceremony I write starts with getting to know you through conversations and detailed questionnaires. Together, we'll create a ceremony that reflects your personalities, your relationship, your values, and the life you're building together.
One of the greatest compliments I receive is when guests ask the couple, "How long have you known your officiant?"
The answer is always the same.
"We actually met because she was our officiant."
That's exactly how I want your ceremony to feel.
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Yes! Some of my favorite ceremonies blend family traditions with modern storytelling.
Whether you'd like to include a tea ceremony, handfasting, a family blessing, ring warming, a wine box ceremony, or traditions from multiple cultures, we'll create a ceremony that feels natural and authentic.
As your Chicago Wedding Officiant, my goal isn't to fit your wedding into a template. It's to create a ceremony that reflects your family, your heritage, and your relationship in a way that feels completely like you.
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Of course.
Some couples write completely original vows, while others prefer a little guidance. I'll provide resources, examples, and support to help you write vows that sound like you, not like something copied from the internet.
If you'd rather simply enjoy the moment, I also offer beautifully written repeat-after-me vows that feel heartfelt and personal.
Whatever you choose, you'll feel supported throughout the process so you can be fully present on your wedding day.
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Definitely.
Many couples choose to include a unity ceremony as part of their micro wedding ceremony because it creates another meaningful moment for family and friends to witness.
Popular options include:
Unity Candle
Sand Ceremony
Handfasting
Wine Box Ceremony
Love Letter Ceremony
Ring Warming
Tree Planting
Family Unity Ceremonies
Cultural and Multicultural Traditions
If you're not sure which feels right, I'll help you choose one that naturally complements your ceremony instead of interrupting it.
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Yes!
Restaurant weddings are one of my favorite types of celebrations. Whether you're planning an intimate dinner in a private dining room or reserving an entire restaurant for your guests, I love helping couples create ceremonies that fit the atmosphere perfectly.
If you're searching for a Restaurant Wedding Chicago officiant, I have experience officiating celebrations throughout the city at restaurants, private event spaces, rooftops, gardens, hotels, and unique Chicago venues.
Your ceremony can be elegant, relaxed, romantic, or filled with laughter. Together we'll create something that feels exactly right for your day.
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Absolutely.
Chicago offers beautiful outdoor locations for intimate weddings, from public gardens and lakefront parks to private estates and hidden courtyards.
Whether you're planning a Garden Wedding Ceremony in Chicago, a rooftop celebration, a backyard wedding, or a ceremony overlooking Lake Michigan, I'll help create a ceremony that fits both the setting and your relationship.
Smaller weddings often allow for a more relaxed experience, giving you the chance to truly enjoy the surroundings and spend meaningful time with the people you love most.
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Yes.
As a Chicago Intimate Wedding Officiant and Chicago Micro Wedding Officiant, I officiate weddings throughout Chicago and the surrounding suburbs, including downtown venues, hotels, restaurants, private homes, parks, gardens, rooftops, and destination locations.
Whether you're planning a small wedding in Chicago, an elegant Luxury Micro Wedding Chicago celebration, or an intimate ceremony with just a handful of guests, I'll meet you where your story begins.
My goal is simple: to help you feel calm, understood, and completely present while creating a ceremony that becomes one of the most memorable parts of your wedding day.
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Many couples assume that because they're planning a small wedding, they don't need a professionally written ceremony. I believe the opposite is true. When your guest list is smaller, every word carries even more meaning.
As a professional Chicago Wedding Officiant, I create ceremonies that help you feel calm, understood, and completely present. Guests often tell my couples they assumed we'd known each other for years because the ceremony feels so personal and authentic. That's exactly the experience I want every couple to have, whether you're celebrating with 12 guests or 200.
Your ceremony shouldn't simply begin your wedding day. It should become one of the moments you and your guests remember most.
"A smaller guest list doesn't mean your ceremony matters less. If anything, every word matters even more."
Setting the perfect tone for your wedding day and the life you’re building as a couple.
Micro Wedding Venues We Love!
Whether you're envisioning a wedding ceremony that's:
Formal or casual
Faith, Inter-faith, lightly spiritual or free of any religious reference.
Thematic or Classic
Modern or Traditional
Formal Gown or something more fun and casual
Non-denominational, Christian, or no mention of spirituality.
...we would love to help you find the perfect blend to create a ceremony that feels uniquely like you.
“I just wanted to thank you for making our wedding so special! All of our family loved you soo much! The ceremony was great and emotional just like the way we wanted it to be! Plus, I feel you exude warmth and love and that is something that was translated soo well in the ceremony! We will forever remember you for everything you did!
Thank you for being part of our special day and making it so memorable!!!”
— Divya - 11.19.22 Bride
Make it stand out.
A ceremony with an atmosphere of ease and unhurried joy, where each interaction blooms naturally and everyone feels like a cherished part of your day.
Love is a journey—your ceremony is the beginning of a beautiful chapter.
On the day you
say forever,
make it incredible.
Credits
Photography Credits
Lisa Kathan Photography, Elope to Chicago, Sonce Landa Photography and Forever Incredible Photography